Authentic connection and self-acceptance go hand in hand. When we are able to accept ourselves fully, flaws and all, we are able to be more open and genuine with others. This, in turn, allows us to form more profound, more meaningful connections.

However, self-acceptance can be challenging to achieve. We live in a society that often places a high value on perfection, and as a result, many of us struggle with self-doubt and a lack of self-worth. We may compare ourselves to others and feel like we don’t measure up, or we may be our worst critics, constantly judging and criticizing ourselves.

But the truth is, no one is perfect. We all have flaws and imperfections, and that’s okay. It’s what makes us unique and human. By learning to accept ourselves as we are, imperfections and all, we can build a stronger foundation for authentic connection with others.

Authentic connection begins when you practice self-compassion. 

So how do we achieve self-acceptance? It starts with self-compassion. Instead of being harsh and critical towards ourselves, we can learn to be kind and understanding. We can practice self-forgiveness and recognize that we are all human and make mistakes.

Another essential aspect of self-acceptance is learning to be present in the moment. We may tend to get caught up in the past or worry about the future, but by bringing our attention back to the present with compassion and non-judgement, we can start to let go of negative thoughts and feelings about ourselves.

In addition to practicing self-compassion and mindfulness, it can also be helpful to surround ourselves with supportive and accepting people. With a robust support system, it can be easier to feel confident and accepted in our skin.

So next time you struggle with self-doubt or a lack of self-worth, remember that it’s okay to be imperfect. By learning to accept ourselves, we can build authentic connections with others and create a sense of belonging and connection.

Self-compassion practices for authenticity.

Self-compassion is the practice of being kind, understanding, and compassionate towards oneself, especially during times of difficulty or failure. It is critical to have ‘soft eyes’ for yourself and others, this comes from holding space without judgment.  Here are a few self-compassion practices that can help you live authentically:

1. Practice self-kindness: Treat yourself with the same kindness, care, and understanding you would offer a good friend.
2. Use self-compassionate language: Instead of using harsh or critical self-talk, try to speak to yourself with understanding and compassion.
3. Recognize common humanity: Remember that everyone experiences difficult emotions and setbacks and that you are not alone in your struggles.
4. Mindfulness: Bring your full attention to the present moment, without judgment. By making Mindfulness a practice, your neural pathways will naturally fire together, which helps you bring mindfulness into every situation you occur. Can you hold space without judgment, and with compassion for others? 
5. Take a self-compassion break: Take a few minutes to close your eyes, take some deep breaths, and repeat a self-compassionate phrase to yourself, such as “I am doing my best” or “I am human, and it’s okay to make mistakes.”
6. Seek support: It’s okay to reach out for help when you need it. Surround yourself with supportive people who can offer understanding and compassion.